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Monday, September 6, 2010

Real World New Orleans | Ep. 10 | Getting Down, Blowing Up

Real World New Orleans Ep. 10 Getting Down, Blowing Up: "The roommates might have finally had enough of Ryan's inconsiderate behavior."


Danielle or Ryan? Who is the better living example of passive aggressive behavior? They're both so good at their backhanded rage and covert anger, it's hard to pick a favorite! How would you weigh in?

In The Angry Smile, we explain the dynamics of the Passive Aggressive Conflict Cycle, a paradigm that describes why so many people who work or live with a passive aggressive person experience sudden and uncharacteristic emotional outbursts. In fact, most people involved in daily interactions with a passive aggressive individual are ultimately beaten down by the relationship.

This episode of The Real World features classic clips of how Ryan calmly discharges "drops" of his hidden rage on his roommates. In the "Confessional," he admits his underlying anger to TV viewers but in person with his roommates, he is unable to be honest or direct about his feelings, choosing instead to "forget" where he parked the group's car, fail to pick up after himself, and sabotage Erik's romance (to name just this week's antics).

The real dynamics of the Passive Aggressive Conflict Cycle come into play as we watch Erik's middle-of-the-night confrontation of Ryan. Erik is the most level-headed of all the housemates, but this episode traces his slow, steady accumulation of rage and his eventual, uncharacteristic blow-up.

The confrontation can be found about 30 minutes into the episode, but if you have the time, the events leading up to it are key in understanding how Ryan inspires Erik to a roller coaster of emotions and an explosive confrontation.



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